what does a regular person do after losing their best friend? (I don't know)
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what does a regular person do after losing their best friend?
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Eat ice cream. This is not a joke. The best advice I can give you right now is to eat some ice cream (in moderation).
Without any context, we do not even know 'what' happened. Did they die? Did you have a falling out? Was it their fault? Was is yours? Did they reveal that they are homosexual, but you are a homophobe because your parents filling you with effed up "values" from the bronze age?
I respect your privacy and you probably had good reasons to not share the details, but this is something you should talk about with your 'other' friends. Not with a bunch of strangers from the internet.
it was all my fault, I did some bad things lost some friends, got back with him, apologized to some people, then today he sent me a message then blocked me. I tried to contact other people who knew him, no response. he has a ng account, dm'd him. hasn't responded. blocked me from every platform he and I have. wish I had ice cream.
U kinda just gotta keep going. My messages r always here if u need to talk
keep on going is to hard tho.
@blackpanther136656 I know the same feeling too. brainrot never corrupted my brain, because i stopped watching annoying orange and fred years ago
@TigerPlushiefire @blackpanther136656 Just to clarify this in post: TigerPlushiefire's original assumption was most likely that "I 'lost' a friend" meant "my friend died".
(As I pointed out later, it was impossible to get any details from your original post.)
As for how you deal with it long-term: You get 'used to the loss'. _Reflect_ on what happened. Improve yourself by learning from it. We ALL make mistakes. It's only a total loss if we don't learn from our mistakes.
If there is anything you do not understand with the power of hindsight, try to get into contact with one of your friends from that clique who you _trust_ (I mean 'moral integrity' - not 'who I like most') and ask them about what happened from their point of view.
Write the person in question a physical letter, detail what you think what happened, explain your feelings, put effort into the wording, and give them an email address or something similar and 'indirect' where they could contact you without any time pressure or other form of stress that's outside of their control.
I don't want to speculate too much about you or the situation, but at this presents itself to me I get the impression that 'if' you want to keep history from repeating itself you either need more information about what happened or you need to 'understand it' a bit better.
Part of what makes me think that is that you ask random strangers from the internet for personal advice and that you have numbers in your username. Both are not the wisest choices...
alr, thanks
@blackpanther136656 yeah i cant remeber the times of going to aquariam with my family and seeing live dolphins show, and seeing my dad proud of me shooting basketballs. its hard
TigerPlushiefire
i should say go their family and friends for support. or try to remember the good times with your best friend. thats all i got say to help you, please dont thank me I was never here
blackpanther136656
remembering the good times hurts even more. how you had it so good until out of the blue. all those memories. gone.